Mnyamata wokonzeka bwanji adawonekera, palibe nthawi yoti avule mathalauza ake, ndipo pali kale tambala wodzaza. Chabwino atsikana achichepere ndithudi ndi okongola, oterowo ndipo amafunika kukokedwa mozama. Momwemonso, kugonana kwanthawi zonse sikunali kokwanira ndipo achinyamata adaganiza zokulitsa mabulu awo ndikugonana kumatako.
Mtsikana wosinthasintha wotereyu ndizochitika zosangalatsa pa kugonana. Mutha kuyesa maudindo osiyanasiyana ndi iye.